Friday, November 18, 2011

Feng Shui Color: Orange

by Reiko Gomez

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In this season of Halloween and autumn leaves, shades of orange come to mind.

In Feng Shui, Orange is a color that represents the Earth element. Depending on the specific Feng Shui reading, Earth can be used to help promote harmonious relationships, or avoid possible accidents. If you have had a Feng Shui consultation with me, you know exactly where you need to add Earth in your space and how it will benefit you.

 Along with orange, other colors that represent the Earth element are yellow, tan and brown. So if you really want to create a powerful “earth” room, add more than one earth color.

at bedroom photo: J. Asnus

In this little boy’s room, I mixed shades of orange and yellow. Based on his birthday, he is an Earth element, so the colors in this room support sound sleep and good health.

According to the 5-element cycle of Feng Shui, Earth element has a productive relationship with the element Metal. Metal colors are white, gray, silver or gold. For this reason, I especially like mixing orange with white or gray.

sag harbor bedroom photo: R. Gomez

In this Hamptons bedroom, there was not enough space for night stands on either side of the bed. So I built a custom headboard with built in lighting and painted it orange.

The walls are pale yellow. The bedding is kept white. And the bed sits on top of an orange, brown and white Jonathan Adler rug. So here you have Earth and Metal working harmoniously together. This room supports good relationships.

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Orange is a timeless, classic color that also has a lot of energy and freshness. There are not many colors you can say that about.

For some fun ways to incorporate orange into your space:

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This wallpaper from Sanderson has a fantastic mix of pale orange and gray in a retro floral pattern.

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This bold graphic design from Flavor Paper has strong orange on a dark chocolate background.

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A few fun pillows make a big impact. These are from LampsPlus.com.

For a chic pop of orange, you can always add an orange throw – I prefer Hermes!

hermes blanket photo: rdujour.com

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Linda K

Hi Reiko, Thank you for the nice article. I love orange! It adds vibrance and cheer to a room any time of year! I value your Feng Shui and decorating talents in helping me 2 years ago with transforming my son’s room from a cool baby room (which he refused to sleep in) to a happy “big boy” room (which he loves to spend time and sleep in)!  Your recommendation to use Earth tones/colors (based on his birthday and Feng Shui of that room) were fabulous!  (What’s more amazing is that you didn’t even know orange and brown were his favorite colors at the time!)  Your suggestion to use “sunsets/sunrises” as a theme was inspirational!  The room now has a wonderful warmth, energy, and life that it lacked before.  (Attached are “before” and “after” photos of the transformation.)

Linda K

I’m not sure if my pictures posted (I didn’t see them so trying again) …

Reiko

Linda these pictures look great! I love how you took my feng shui design recommendations and incorporated them into your own beautiful design.  This shows what a long distance feng shui design consultation can do. I hope to finally meet you soon!

Linda K

Hi Reiko, I’d love to have you come design a room in our house one day. I wish you were closer! Let me know if you are ever in the area.

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So, I Finally Read THE PASSAGE

2011 at 5am     Posted by Rebecca Joines Schinsky

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You’d have to have spent 2010 in a bunker somewhere to not know that Justin Cronin’s The Passage was the Big Book of the year. Big in that it was ubiquitous in the way that, say, The Marriage Plot is right now and in that it was nearly as long as the also-currently-unavoidable 1Q84. Oh, and it was about vampires, sort of, and they were still (sort of) all the rage.

And that’s basically all I knew about The Passage. It was everywhere, and pretty much everyone I knew read it. Most of my friends loved it, though the ones who didn’t were fervent in their dislike, and I felt like I couldn’t win. If I read it and hated it, I’d have that awful feeling that I must have missed something vital, or worse, that I simply wasn’t up to understanding something about it, and if I loved it, I’d feel like I had to defend it (and by extension, my taste) to the ones who deemed it less than worthy. Add to all this the fact that I wasn’t really doing genre at the time, and you have the makings of an epic case of bookcrastination.

So I just left it languishing on my galley shelves. I saw it every time I moseyed over to select my next read. I picked it up and *almost* started it a few times. I even took it on two vacations. But I just couldn’t get excited about it. For a while, I thought this failure to launch was a result of the hangover from all the hype surrounding the book’s release. Despite the fact that I knew a great deal of the buzz about The Passage was genuine because it was coming from people whose recommendations and opinions I trust, there was so much talk about it that I was a bit turned off. I needed to put some space between all that chatter—and all those loaded expectations—and my experience with it.

The stars aligned last week, and I finally picked it up (and then promptly hunkered down), and you know what? It was pretty great. Not perfect, but perfectly enjoyable.  

I knew that Cronin was a literary writer (dude won the PEN/Hemingway Award, after all), but I didn’t expect the writing to be quite so gorgeous in parts. Not to say that genre books can’t also have terrific writing, but I’m new enough to them—and attached enough to my literary fiction roots—that I still find it surprising when I’m moved to pause in the middle of an apocalyptic vampire thriller to underline a beautifully constructed sentence. Also, multiple narratives are the most powerful of my book kryptonites, and I was thrilled that Cronin presented the story not just from many different characters’ perspectives but also through incorporating non-traditional formats like emails, journals, and academic papers into the text.

The plot is compelling and scary in that “holy shit, what is the government experimenting on that we don’t know about?” kind of way AND in the usual vampires-are-creepy way, and Cronin forces readers to consider just how easily something could get out of hand—or fall into the wrong hands—and cause the end of the world as we know it. There are some pacing problems that make the first half of the book seem to drag at points, but the end (literally, the stuff that happens in the last 20 pages of this 800-page tome) makes them seem like non-issues after all. There are a lot of characters to juggle, but Cronin mostly succeeds in making each one recognizable and memorable, and all the important ones are just plain unforgettable.

Though I didn’t lurve The Passage, I liked it quite a bit, and this was a ridiculously fun and generally positive reading experience for me. I’m not well-versed enough in the tropes of vampire fiction or science fiction to address other critics’ accusations that The Passage is derivative, and I think that actually made me an ideal reader for this book. I didn’t know what Cronin was modeling his book on (many say it’s Stephen King’s The Stand), so I was able to meet it where it was.

When I realized that—that one of the most important things about my experience with this book was the fact that I was able to meet it where it was—I also realized that this wouldn’t have happened if I’d picked it up a year ago. In mid-2010, I just wasn’t ready for it. Plain and simple. But my adventures in genre over the last ten months have shown me that I can read, understand, and enjoy genre fiction, and they’ve given me a deep appreciation for the magic that happens when a talented literary writer sets out to write a book in which Things Actually Happen.

The moral of the story? Next time there’s a Big Book you feel like you’re supposed to be reading but not right now, wait it out. Let it come to you. You’ll be glad you did.

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Sandy onOctober 26th, 2011 6:13 am

Well, strangely, I was one of the people that actually read this book last summer. (Actually listening on audio, while I was walking in Indiana on lonely roads lined with lots of trees and cornfields – holy crap!) But I know exactly what you are talking about. I’m usually behind when it comes to reading the latest and greatest. Perfect example is The Night Circus. I have the thing, but after sitting and staring at it for weeks, I think I’m going to have to wait. Too many reviews, too much hype.
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Lauren onOctober 26th, 2011 11:51 am

I JUST finished The Passage last week. It took me 3 months to read it (between being a full time pharmacy student and working). The last month though I really “bunkered down” and started reading it alot more, and also listening to it in my car while I was driving to and from school/work, which helped ALOT!
I couldn’t agree with your review any more. I think the last 2 sections of the book are the best. I was racing through them trying to see what happened. I think it was a good book and left you in a cliff hanger. There were some chapters that could have been left out. The way he jumps from character to character wasn’t that confusing and left you wanting to continue to read the next few chapters to figure out what happen to that character.
I’m looking forward to the next book.

Katharine Herndon onOctober 26th, 2011 7:51 pm

I’m still having that same relationship with The Passage, so your post gives me hope.

Marie onOctober 27th, 2011 4:54 pm

You’ve given me hope, too! I’m still waiting for The Passage to come to me. I hope to read it sooner rather than later. Nice review, by the way.
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Anna onOctober 28th, 2011 6:04 am

I know what you talking about, it happened to me too with some book. I couldn’t read it, only couple of years later i could get to it. and then, i fell in love with the book…
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ella onOctober 28th, 2011 7:48 am

It actually happens to me quiet often where I start a book and then i put it down for a few months b/c something goes “wrong” but once i get back to it I love it and I end up rereading the first part again :)
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Rachel onNovember 1st, 2011 11:11 pm

Being one of those people who was shouting from the heavens at you to read this book, I’m so happy to see that you did and that you enjoyed it! I’m with you when it comes to “meeting it where it was.” I was at the right time at place for that book when it came out, I think mostly because I was doing genre fiction via YA, but I also had no previous knowledge of it’s derivatives. I’d barely heard of The Stand for goodness sakes.

This is also how I feel about the Game of Thrones series. I don’t really have any other experience with high fantasy, so I can’t make those comparisons but he’s a brilliant writer so I can meet Martin exactly where I’m supposed to. It’s a wonderful way to read a book.
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Book Review: SHINY OBJECTS by James A. Roberts

2011 at 5am     Posted by Rebecca Joines Schinsky

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Published November 8, 2011 by HarperOne 

he Beatles may have sold us on the notion that money can’t buy us love, but what about happiness? In Shiny Objects, veteran marketer and professor of consumer behavior James A. Roberts pulls back the curtain on advertising, the American Dream and contemporary consumerism in an attempt to encourage reflection on spending habits and a return to non-material pursuits.

Two parts sociology and one part self-help, Shiny Objects contains a thorough review of the literature related to spending and happiness. Roberts calls attention to the deep contradiction between Americans’ stated belief that material possessions cannot make us happy and the undeniable fact that we continue to buy as if they will. Additionally, numerous studies indicate that happiness is largely biologically determined–that we inherit it rather than acquire it–so though we may feel a boost in happiness immediately after a purchase, it is short-lived. We quickly adapt to the “new normal” and begin looking for the next acquisition and the next temporary bump. (So much for those thoughts of “Everything will be better when we get the new house/car/skinny jeans.”)

Roberts calls this the “treadmill of consumption,” and he cites evidence that pursuit of material possessions (and the long hours of work and stress required to pay for them) is inversely related to well-being, self-acceptance, personal relationships, community involvement and other indicators of social, psychological and physical health. Basically, it’s bad for you. 

In fact, the primary difference between happy people and unhappy people is not income, homeownership or the number of gadgets one has, but social relationships. You know, like actually seeing people in person! Accordingly, Roberts encourages readers to check their consumer behaviors and rededicate themselves to pursuing relationships and avocations that can lead to genuine happiness, and he provides quizzes, checklists and basic cognitive-behavior tools to help them do so.

But Shiny Objects is about more than research. Roberts reveals marketing techniques and ploys in hopes that informed consumers will be less likely to fall prey to them, and he explores the social models that prop up our materialistic values, from the American Dream to the increasingly popular prosperity gospel (paging Joel Osteen!), to the product placement that is rampant in entertainment (there are 205 product placements in the average episode of The Biggest Loser! TWO HUNDRED AND FIVE.).

Giving readers a wealth of information to parse, Roberts–who cannot seem to decide if he is a theorist, a therapist or both–offers an intellectual approach to an emotionally charged subject and suggests concrete changes readers can effect in their lives and environments to escape from materialism and build lives with real meaning.

A version of this review was originally published in Shelf Awareness.

 

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Thursday, November 17, 2011

The First Book You Must Put On Your 2012 Reading List

2011 at 5am     Posted by Rebecca Joines Schinsky

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My friend and trusted font of book recommendations Josh Christie mentioned this title on the Bookrageous podcast a couple weeks ago and said, “It’s changing the way I read.” And that was all I needed to hear. I mean, we read books that change the way we think all the time, but how often do we read something that changes the way we READ? I had to get my hands on it.

Relentless pursuer of excellent reading material that I am, I obtained a galley and devoured The Lifespan of a Fact whole. Here’s the quick and dirty: author John D’Agata was hired in 2003 to write an essay about a teenager’s suicide jump from the Stratosphere in Las Vegas. It was rejected from the magazine that originally commissioned it due to factual inaccuracies, but The Believer picked it up. And they assigned then-intern Jim Fingal to fact check it.

Sounds straight-forward, right? But here’s the thing: an essay is not a piece of journalistic reportage. An essay, as D’Agata reminds Fingal throughout the text, is an attempt. An attempt to tell the truth. To reveal something about humanity. To get at an idea or event in a way that straight non-fiction cannot. It’s the old Tim O’Brien “story truth vs. happening truth” polemic. And yes, for the sake of this conversation, an essay is a story more than it is a factual account. 

So The Lifespan of a Fact (coming from W. W. Norton February 2012) goes like this. Fact checker Jim Fingal reads a sentence of D’Agata’s piece, identifies the factual claims it makes (think: height of buildings, angles of intersections, minute but potentially important details) and trots off to investigate their accuracy. He reports inaccuracies to the editor and to D’Agata, who responds with increasing frustration to Fingal’s apparent lack of appreciation for the value and application of artistic license. This book presents the text of D’Agata’s original piece along with excerpts of the email conversations D’Agata and Fingal had over the next seven years. Seven years of conversation! About one essay! It boggles, but in the best possible way.

While D’Agata and Fingal grapple with the tension between factual accuracy and emotional poignancy (false dichtomy? perhaps…), readers are invited to consider the ways in which The Lifespan of a Fact has itself been edited, and for what purposes. D’Agata and Fingal ask us to think about whether we care more about knowing how many seconds it *really* took the boy to fall to the ground or feeling that the story of his fall is connected to larger themes in the essay. They force us to examine the value we place on finding “the truth” and to acknowledge the compromises—artistic and otherwise—that affect the works we think of as nonfiction.

And that’s the thing about this book that will change the way you read. You’ll never pick up another nonfiction book believing that, because it is heavily-researched and made it past the gateways of mainstream publishing, it must be factually true. The Lifespan of a Fact will make you question every so-called fact you read, and while that sounds like it could quickly devolve into you locking yourself in the basement to think about conspiracies like those Lone Gunmen dudes from The X-Files, it really means that you’ll think more about the art of writing (and reading) nonfiction and become a more engaged, critically thinking reader.

I’m calling it right now. The Lifespan of a Fact is going to be a 2012 favorite. Put a circle around February 27th on your calendar. You’ll be glad you did.

 

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Julie @ Read Handed onNovember 16th, 2011 8:54 am

Sounds fascinating. I’ve never heard of a book like this before.

Alex George onNovember 16th, 2011 9:45 am

And lo, the TBR grows once again. I was just talking about D’Agata with a friend of mine who teaches creative writing here. She couldn’t rave about him enough. This sounds wonderful. Can’t wait!

Andi onNovember 16th, 2011 10:31 am

This one sounds awesome and perception-bendy. I can see myself using this in the classroom — especially with students who are sold on non-fiction as some sort of “right way” to read.

Care's Online Book Club onNovember 16th, 2011 10:50 am

Sounds really good. I like Andi’s “perception-bendy” phrase. Does this bring up the whole nonfiction-novel vs narrative-nonfiction vs historical-fiction (etc) debate or just another sliver of fun into the discussion?

Beth F onNovember 16th, 2011 10:58 am

Welcome to my world.

Rebecca Joines Schinsky onNovember 16th, 2011 12:22 pm

It more raises the distinctions of essay vs. narrative nonfiction vs. journalism. Fascinating.

Sarah Manley onNovember 16th, 2011 12:35 pm

Gah! End of February… killing me…

Kim (Sophisticated Dorkiness) onNovember 17th, 2011 8:18 am

Predictably, I am dying to read this book. February cannot come soon enough.

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